.....My darling fiancés EX wife ... Really I have tried to be friendly, I have tried to be cordial, I have even SACRIFICED my personal comfort and happiness in order to prevent my step-son from getting his feelings hurt (she is his mother after all, although that's not his fault, he didn't chose to be born of a harpy...) BUT THIS was.... IT, I finally lost my breeding and composure with this....:censor: .....Absolute and utter greened- skinned -apple -toting - broom-riding witch of my nightmares!! I didnt get up in arms when she barged into our home unannounced at 830am and started cleaning my tub, and criticizing my home-making skills. I didnt throw a fit then, merely changed the locks on the house. I didnt even bat and eyelash when she invited herself... her then boyfriend , his daughter and her 2 yr old to my unchildproof home for a party she was neither informed of nor invited to , proceeded to tell my guests that SHE was the one who found the home, SHE would do this and that to the house instead of my choices, all the wile the daughter of the BF goes about getting pretty plastered on MY BOOZE, and lets the infant run wild, makes no attempt to watch it as it almost drinks a liter of Vodka ...poor kid , must know what hes stuck living with till hes 18...I was a lady about it, I simply set off our fire alarm ... so as to end my dinner party ...I did get steamed at her but I just wrote her a nice letter ... from my lawyer's office ... and called her and asked her to please have the decency to leave me alone. LAST NIGHT was the last straw.... She desperately still loves my fiancé, knows she made a mistake, but has tried to force an idea of happiness after she realized he and I were in it for the long haul... she got remarried to a guy she only went on 4 dates with ... popped out 2 spawnlings already (one was the reason for the shotgun wedding, of course after she pulled the I am a good Christian and would NEVER live in sin like you, we arent even having sex before marriage bit to my face... hummmm who was knocked up and had to RACE to the alter?...) Its not her fault she was brought up poor; you dont have to have money to have class. Its not her fault she knew only trailers, power-lines ,Harleys and not her biological father( her mother had it narrowed down to a guy named Bones and a guy named Big T) I do blame her for entrapping my poor sweet darling man those 17 years ago, with a surprise pregnancy(that seems to be the only way she gets men to marry her) they were young and he did the right thing as always, married her, worked two jobs while she sat at home and refused to feed , change or acknowledge the baby, then cheated on him and walked out of him and the babys life after a few months, that I blame her for. She has regretted her choice, but thats the choice she made, seeing us so happy has really sent her into La-la land. I am lucky enough to have come from a good family, with morals and means and I dont consider myself a snob, but there are certain things I will not stand for..... Predictably enough she invited herself and husband to a get-together that my Fiance and his family were having at a local restaurant, she shows up I feel the need to quickly make my Margarita disappear and order a fresh one. She proudly announces they have bought a home 2 blocks from my dear man and I how touching. The home was a bit pricy for them some one I suppose is compensating for spending copious amounts of time in a double wide. No one else in the family can stand her; they are just too gentle to sand up to her, so hooray, shes going to live down the street . Woopie. Well she starts in on ME predictably enough Oh I hope that it doesnt make you uncomfortable Nope I reply We are closer to the golf course than you Well hopefully you can take up the game You are still stuck in that little house arent you? You will never be able to afford a house like ours, it must make you so jealous to know that and that his wife is right down the street, I will always be his first wife and you are just his second choice, stuck in that dingy little house, and he is never going to marry his little whore, that must feel terrible to know your just his Barbie bimbo and not important to him like I was. . WELL lets just say, a girl can only take SOOOOO MUCH. That was it. I really think my eyes turned red and flames came out of my ears .I had let this awful woman have her say for far to long . I have really finiaily had enough of this abuse from you. Quite frankly, I do not even need to acknowledge some one who is as poorly bred as yourself, not to be arrogant, but I can at least look back on my heritage with pride, coming from a long line of refined individuals who have historically impacted this city in ways that you will never begin to understand. Honestly this is very pompous and forward coming from little Miss White trash USA, whom herself could never get to the alter while not pregnant. Do me a favor, scurry on home and try to believe that you are better than everyone else although your heritage is set atop the backseat of motorcycles with guys named Bones, and tee-shirts from Wal-Mart that say Im with stupid. Dont ever speak to me again, I have wasted enough time already, because I have Thrown-out shoes worth more than you are, and my handbag collection cost more than what you make in a year. I am sorry that you feel the need to lash out it would be classier if you did not but please just leave me alone, because your getting white trash on my Spy bag. Ciao darling. .. I cant tell you how much better I feel. Was that too mean? I'm not evil..not THAT evil.