Ok, I bid on a bag close to the end of the auction but lose out to the previous bidder by like less than $4. I feel sad but know similar bag will show up someday, they always do. So today I see the same bag relisted--same seller (good feedback) and it has condition issues so I know for sure it is the exact same bag. I guess the winner (with less that 10 feedback!!) must have backed out, there isn't anything in either of their feedbacks to indicate anything negative happened, plus the auction is so recent, there wouldn't have been time for the buyer to get the bag, say yuck, and return it. So now I feel double bad--I lose the bag to someone who didn't want it and the seller didn't even contact me with a second chance offer, or whatever they are called. I don't know if I am going to bid on it again. So I am venting here, thank you for listening.