I bid on an auction and won to the tune of $850.00 back in late September, I immediately paid for the auction and emailed the seller if there was any possible way she could have the item to me prior to me leaving for a month on vacation early October she replied of course. Needless to say I never did get the item and figured it would be delivered while I was on vacation and the UPS man was instructed to leave all packages with my neighbor. While I was away later in October I get a email from the seller asking me if I received the package to which I replied that I was on vacation and had hoped to receive it prior like we had discussed and that my neighbor was holding all my packages when I return home I would let her know. I get home-now this the last week in November.. no package- log on to eBay and she is No longer a Registered user. So I request her contact number and proceed to call Belgium get her on the phone and she does not know why she is NLRU and will call eBay get it figured out and my package is safe with her. It was never mailed she was going to call me back the next day and let me know the tracking number etc, etc. I waited two days she never called me back. I proceeded to call her again leaving a message she never returned my call or tried to contact me via email. I decided that this was a deal gone bad and call American Express get the charge removed off my bill and filed a never received item with eBay. I have not heard a thing other than from American Express that they removed the charge. Today, I get a email from Ebay stating that she replied after all this time that she mailed the package out today and provided me with the tracking number. I replied that I was no longer going to complete this transaction with her I did not receive the item prior to leaving for vacation like we discussed, she never called me back like she had stated or replied to my message via telephone or email. This item was supposed to have been received by me months ago and that I am refusing the package and it will be returned to her. The seller is threating me with a negative and says that I will have to pay for the International Federal Express etc. Am I wrong for refusing the package?. Why would she send me an email stating did you get the package when she knew darn well she never mailed it. The seller kept my money from September 20 until November 26 and never sent me the merchandise..I am not sure how to proceed with this one. Another thing.. when I look up her name it still says NLARU.. How is she replying to me other than signing up with a new user name? Is this correct?