In my search for the perfect pre-loved Spy, I've seen several for sale that mention a worn spot, or show a place where the color of the leather has been rubbed so that it appears lighter. How bad does it make a bag look when it gets a spot like that? How frequently does that happen? I'm a little distressed that a bag that costs typically between $1K and $2K (or more!) would wear like that. If I DO buy a Spy, I would want to be able to carry it and use it. I am careful about my bags, but they do get tossed in and out of my car, into a desk drawer at work, into a shopping cart at the grocery store, etc. Should I give up on the idea of a Spy?