Wow. What advice! LoL
I DIDN'T land a HLH. At least, not at first. When my first hunt for a Bolide started me in H, Dh was a little mortified. The price. He thought I was nuts.
Then I had 2 fabulous, but less pricey bags fall apart on me almost at the same time. They weren't cheap, though - about a couple grand apiece. I was devastated. They were near-new and to fall apart like that from bad construction was ridiculous! My DH saw me, crestfallen holding 2 halves of a bag he'd just gotten me and I could almost see how fed up he was with "designer bags" right then.
Thats how my DH's appreciation of H started; with a distaste for the rest.
Now I have a small but happy collection and I've never had even a minor problem with their construction. Every H gift is a hit, there's no guesswork involved. He knows my style, and he knows my S.A. so it's win-win! LoL
Case in point: We were on our way to dinner a few weeks ago with a few minutes to kill before our reservation. We took a walk around the chic block instead of swilling liquor at the bar and I saw a big, beautiful Louis Vuitton store. I stopped for a second, and looked in. I turned to DH and said "you know, I've never even gone in an LV store before". I was a bit torn, not sure if I should. What if I fell in love with something?
My DH turned to me and winked. "wouldn't you feel like cheating on Hermes if we walked in there?" I laughed, grabbed his arm and said yes, curiousity quenched by my DH's good nature.
HLDHs, in my understanding, are rare in the wild. Good, patient husbands, though... the ones that like to be as good
to their wives as those wives are to them is quite possible. I think it's all about the relationship you build. After all, men have hobbies that are hard to understand. Like flatscreens, hunting gear, boat whatever...
A certain size bag, in a certain style, with a certain colour, in a certain leather, with a special strap and a particulour hardware.... we're even worse, aren't we? LoL