I am very anxious to find out from you ladies when did you find out the gender of your baby? I was on my 4th month when I found out the gender of my 1st baby.. I was seeing a private practitioner at that time. This time around, I am seeing a doctor in a Military Hospital.. I think they are waiting for me to be at least 5-5½mos pregnant until they do an ultrasound to get the measurements and eventually find out the gender of my 2nd baby.. My dilemma now is that I will be going back to the States for Christmas and New Year's.. during that time.. I will be on my 4½-5½mos... therefore, I will not be able to see my doctor (who is in a Military Hospital) by that time because I am in the States (Mil Hosp is overseas - where my hubby is stationed at).. of course, as much as possible, hubby and I would like to know the gender of our 2nd baby (if possible) before we leave for the States.. which I will be onto my 4½month... Were you ladies able to find out the gender of your unborn baby by the 4-4½month???