I was wondering this when I came across a thread in another forum. Do you let anyone borrow your fendis or other designer bags? There will always be some people that you just could not give them to (usually no one asks) but if they did, how can you say "no" without being rude? Most everyone on the other thread said "No! Never! How dare you ask!" as their responses, but realistically, whether it's an acquaintance, good friend, sister, mother, child...and you are not comfortable, what do you do? I can't think of a nice way to say no which is why my automatic response has been "yes" so far, but I want to change this..