Hi all
I suppose if the bag is in a different colour, I wouldn't mind it as much....but having said that, I would feel a little weird when we are out together.
I have a friend that does not buy the same stuff but she mimics gestures . In a group, if A says something (usually something witty) with some kind of gesture or action. She repeats wholesale right after A, while we are all there including A. When B or C does another thing during this same occasion, she mimics again right there again in our presence.
She does not seem to be aware that she is doing it. She does not regularly spend much on clothes, bags or shoes. But if she does, she'd spend hundreds of dollars and it still looks weird on her like a balloon style skirt. These one season styles are not worth it and really just looks good on the runway.
For me personally, if someone comforts me as "how flattering it is to have 'followers'....." I'd still feel very weird, not angry or upset; just very uncomfortable...remember the movie 'Single White Female'....yikes!
Just in case you are wondering....I've known my friend for 20 years, she's a mother of 2 young children with an active social life. She's pretty harmless if one can overlook her mimic thingy, it just irritates me.
best regards
Grace