lol jade..i posted over on PS with a big long dissertation on what and why..but the jist was GREY WEEKENDER.
Ink isn't my fave color, and the veining on that bag kind of bothers me but it's a total personal thing as to what you like and why!! some people like more veining and others less...and color is so personal as well.
also for the Ink and the veininess, i think some gals here have experimented with rubbing lubriderm into more veiny or drier bags to soften them up a bit, check out old threads and see if maybe you want to try it if you keep the Ink.
but if the 'grey' is the greige/cement, i saw it in person at Bal NY and thought it was a fabulous neutral and i love the weekender, it's PERFECT for a big diaper bag AND then it can be a true 'weekender' after Button is all grown up!!
(or keep both, heee...you know i have to live vicariously through you other gals since my BI day is tucked away til xmas!)