So I have an absolutely lovely 35 togo (non-veined) gh birkin. Recently I've been tempted by the same birkin but in box not togo. While I'd love to have both , I can't. So do I stick with the togo or trade for the box?? For those of you who don't know me, I live in the burbs and generally dress very casually. I'll try to post a usual picture of me here so that you get the idea. So this would be sort of an everyday bag and I wouldn't baby it. The togo is obviously very durable. The box will show the scuffs much more easily and will just have to age to a nice patina....but maybe it is too showey for the burbs and too delicate for everyday? Help!!