Hi Ladies, I am new to this form and want to purchase a Bay. I live in Denmark and my husband is in Boston right now on business and is going to go to NM to buy it for me. (It is much cheaper to do it in the states!) My questions are: 1. I am 5'3" in your opinion is the bag going to look/be too big? I have a baby and one thought is I can carry all my stuff plus the babies with me... 2. I am interested in the Bay tote in Navy. How dark and how shiny is it? Is the black better? I like the Mocha but they don't have it. 3. What color is the lining? 4. Can you wear the tote on your shoulder? or are the straps to short or bag too big? Thanks for the help and I would LOVE to see pic's of your Bays too!