OK, I've got this dilemma right now. What if you were in a different country and for one weak moment, out of curiosity you kissed a guy in a club, assuming that he would'nt find out? I totally regretted it afterwards and swore to God that I'd never do it again. Unfortunatly, a year after keeping the secret, two friends find out from my friend who was with me at the time. Now one of the friends, who is my boyfriend's close cousin is threatening to tell him if I don't. (Five months after she found out, mind you.) My boy and I are intending to marry after I travel for eight months (he does'nt want to travel.) Now I have to break the news to him-and this will completly destroy everything. What's the best way to handle this?