I am confused now...Don't know if I should get the Bubble Quilt Bowler and Medium Flap in Dark Beige. The bowler seems bulky if I put in on the shoulder since it supposed to carried as a tote bag. The Medium Flap is meant to be carried on the shoulder but it can be only carried in one way. However, the zipper style with the bowler seems to be more secured than the Flap which has the straw string. I like both the style and not sure which one to pick? Should I go for the bolwer or the Medium Flap? Thanks in advance!