ASAP Hello, Thanks within advance for your assistance in this matter! Okay, here's the summary. ________________ Buyer bought my Dior Gaucho tote for 1k. I tagged the bag (I put a scurity tag the buyer has to cut off with scissors, so I don't end up with a fake returned to me...although I have only had one bag returned due to buyer's remorse, I just don't want any issues). Anyhow, I shipped it out and he received it this past weekend, he was really happy....but, it was a gift for his wife and he says she would want a bag that could go upon the shoulder. So, I am also selling another authentic Dior Gaucho double bag, which does go on the shoulder. He asked if I would exchange the bags (the tote for the double)...the double is actually worth a tiny bit less, so I said no problem. I am very understanding and want happy buyers. So, today he FedEx'd the tote back to me 1-day shipping and then selected the buy it now immediately for the Dior Gaucho Double bag I was selling. ok.......here's my question. When I receive the Dior Gaucho tote back today (assuming my security tag is attached and it's still in brand new condition) I will exchange it, but what do I do financially through Paypal to protect myself. I mean, I could ship out the Dior Gaucho Double bag and then later he could claim something with regards to the tote, maybe requesting a refund or something possibly.....or am I just being too cautious? When I receive the Dior Gaucho tote back, should I process a refund for it and then ask the buyer to process payment for the Dior Gaucho Double bag??? Whatever happens needs to be quick, I forgot to mention that. When he purchased the tote, he said they were leaving for Europe within a week....so, I need to know what you all think. I will check back often, I need to ship the Dior Gaucho double as soon as I get the tote back. When I receive the tote he paid for, should I just ship the double bag out with no transaction taking place financially? I did mention to him that I would need to process the small refund for the difference of the two bags (I think it is something around $20). Help! I just want to cover myself, because between the two bags that is over $2k. Thank you so much for your help with this. Happy Holidays!