Grrrrrrrrrrrr, this drives me crazy. Have you been outbid on eBay for some Hermes goodie, with the price getting driven up and up in the process, only to find that the buyer turns around and lists it for sale immediately? This just happened to me and I'm miffed, big time. Do I suck it up and bail the buyer out of purchase that he or she went a bit nuts on and clearly regrets, or just let it go? I'm bothered because the bidding got a bit out hand because of this buyer. I stopped bidding just $100 short of the asking price, but felt if I'd continued bidding that the buyer would have done the same. What to do????