Ladies - I returned the O/S white/ivory muse because I want a large WHITE bag, not an ivory one. I did fall in love with the grey flannel muse! It's gorgeous. Question - which size should I get large? Oversize? Normally I prefer O/S but for some reason I thought it might be too much grey flannel. I'd love the O/S muse in grey leatherf .... TDF! Has anyone seen it and care to share your opinion? THANKS!