Hello! I need some advice please. I want to purchase a neutral color birkin that I can wear all the time during the days. I am debating between GOLD togo or ETOUPE clemence. Either of these bags would be purchased from a reseller. Here is a little background on myself: -32 years old -I have a 2 year old and a baby on the way -I work in an office -I have blonde hair (I get highlights) and am not super fair, but also not super tan. -I wear basic colors/clothes (blacks, jeans, greys, etc) -My current Hermes collection includes: -35cm rouge vif chevre birkin (gold hw) -35cm blue jean togo birkin (palladium hw) -30cm black box birkin (palladium hw) The bummer is I do not live near a boutique so have no clue which color would be best for me. So do I go GOLD or ETOUPE? I feel so confused and need your help Thanks!