I've been working very very hard this summer on pulling out of my breakup with BF pity party and realizing it was the right thing to do. Now a friend of mine is getting married in early Sept. The invitation was actually sent to both ex BF and me (before we broke up). Let me qualify that she is fabulous but not a super close friend; we have friends in common but she and I don't seek out eachother's company, KWIM? I only see her a few times a year and I've only met her FH a couple times. Cut to the chase: I don't want to go to a wedding solo and I really don't have any close male friends (anymore) that I could bring as a date. I haven't gone solo to a wedding in years and years and I really am not up for it. I suppose I should not feel so self conscious because it's about my friend and her FH's special day and I should be there to support them but I just can't do it, people. So am I being totally lame?