Hi! I need some help. I'm looking for a schoolbag. I thought I was going to buy a large Carly but then I found out that the seller listed it wrong and it wasn't the right color so I'm not buying it afterall So today, I've been reconsidering and thinking maybe I should look for a Gigi instead. I showed dh and he is ALL FOR Gigi, lol. Here are my questions: 1. Is Gigi a very heavy bag? Keep in mind, I've been carrying Chelsea Abbey around since Sept. and that bag is insanely heavy. But I will be putting books in here. 2. Do you think Gigi loses something if she gets a little scratchy? Because I'm thinking that might happen in school and with daily use, but imho I would think she would look good even if she is a little "weathered". 3. Does Gigi tend to slip off the shoulder easily? 3. If you had to choose just one for a mature college student, would you recommend large Carly or Gigi? How do they compare in size? Thanks for any input girls!