As a random act of kindness I bought my wife a coach scarf print tote last week and it should be arriving today. Did I do a good job? I didn't want to spend over 350, and I know that she prefers the tote style. I'm afraid I might have done a "stupid husband trick" and bought something that is unattractive. Also, I'm thinking about getting a special shelf to put it on so the cats wont try using it to massage their claws on...any other advice?