Have been gone for a while. Needed to save cash to buy a condo. That is done and I am ready for some more H! DH and I were in the NYC store this weekend shopping for my 38th and 40th birthday gifts. We had so much fun looking a everything on the first floor. DH is sooooo into getting a Kelly for my 40th b-day (or sooner)! I have settled on a rigid box calf bag in black. Probably with palladium HW because my Bolide has gold and because most of my jewelry is silver, white gold or platinum. But I would be just as happy with gold. So here is the question: size. I am 57 and 140 lbs. I can take a big bag, but I dont think that my first Kelly should be too large. I will use it for day and some formal, but my Chanel flap will be my formal bag. So, should I do 28 cm or 30 cm? BTW, For my 38th he gave me a brown Epsom bifold business card holder and a set of Kelly Caleche lotions and perfumes. He said that the perfume makes me smell like I just washed my hair in the woods!