Hi Everyone, I am going through a very difficult situation with my boyfriend. I need to make a final decision which will involve breaking up with him. We have been dating for over 2 years, and throughout that period of time he has been immature (he's 26) dependent (on his parents/family), and Irresponsible (needs to get his life together, pay off debt, finish school etc) I have remained patient and motivating even though I knew he was not what I wanted. He fell in love with me fast and things became serious. It has been 2 years and I feel the same, he is still doing immature things. Ex, sends me a text msg to tell me that his co-worker asked him to check out a hot girl at work. forgive me, but you keep that sh*t to yourself or share it with your boys, you do not share it with your g/f or she will think it's what you do all day at work. I was in a 4 yr relationship/engaged with a much older guy and shortly after (as in 2 weeks) that ended I met the current guy and although I did not want a relationship - things sort of just happened and I went with the flow... Now I feel as if I diddnt give myself enough time to heal and did not get used to being single/alone so it's going to really hurt making this final decision to be single and take sometime for myself and to not settle for anything other than what I truly want... am I being a fool? what is your advice?