I love to snoop around on eBay and love it when I find something I just can't live without. What I find frustrating are sellers who refuse to leave feedback until the buyer leave them feedback first. I feel that once I've paid, I've satisfied my part of the transaction and should be left appropriate feedback. In my opinion, the sellers are withholding their feedback as a retaliation method in case the buyer leaves negative feedback then the seller can leave negative. I've been both buyer and seller and leave my feedback as a seller immediately upon payment but very few do the same. In fact, many sellers state right in their listing they won't leave feedback until the buyer leaves theirs. Plus, after I've left my feedback, I have to 'remind' the seller to post their feedback. I understand there are a lot of nuts out there so sellers have to protect themselves. Am I being silly?