Hi everybody... I know that there a lot of you out there that have the ERGO belted HOBO... I have a question...I have it in TABACCO ( I bought it during the fall PCE) and never got around to using it. I took it out of the box and put my things in it, and it is really stiff... Does it soften up with time and if it does, how long will it take? It is really stiff and seems to bend in a weird place (almost like the leather puckers) when it is full and zipped up. Photo 1 is purse stuffed with tissue Photo 2 and 3 is purse with my stuff in it hanging from my hand. Notice the strange bend? Thanks in advance!!!