I purchased and paid for a necklace for my daughter's bday on Dec 4; I sent a note saying that I needed the item by Dec 15. I sent 3 messages total and finally on Dec 16, I received a message from seller saying that he was responding to my messages, but I was somehow not receiving them. (yeah right!) I then got a message saying that my package was being shipped on the 19th! 15 days AFTER I bought it and 4 days AFTER I needed it. I sent another message that was again ignored. Today I log into my eBay account to give the seller negative feedback and I notice that the sale has been cancelled, but no money has been refunded. I am so mad! What do I do now? I can't even dispute it with eBay because all records of the transaction on MyEbay page are gone!