My DH and I like to take day trips to places like the zoo, aquarium, arboretum,etc. I usually take a camera bag and I want a small handbag that I can use across my body. I have narrowed it down to a duffle or the Ergo crossbody. (A swing pack is too small). The Coach store in my area doesn't have the Ergo crossbody in stock so what I want to know is this-is the strap on the Ergo make of a soft leather like the Ergo itself? That might be a more comfortable strap against my neck than the stiff leather on the duffle. If anyone knows the answer to this I would very much appreciate you sharing your knowledge!