I've been debating this as well. While my e-ring is a halo ring, the actual band is plain. I feel like I would love to get a band, not to mention that it's really important to my fiance, but not sure if I want one to sit flush. I feel like I wouldn't mind getting one to wear separately, on days when I don't feel like wearing the e-ring after I'm married.
But, I have to admit, when I see people with their e-rings, I too think that they are engaged only - not married.
But, I have to admit, when I see people with their e-rings, I too think that they are engaged only - not married.