I bought a hat a lot like this one. It is all black with a crystal feather brooch at the base. It is the same style as this hat but it does not have the flowers on it. Do you like it? I was thinking of wearing it with a black trench, my dojo Seven jeans, black pointed toe and stiletto boots for winter. Should I keep it or return it? Is it too "stuffy" looking? (I am only 26 years old & want it to be age appropriate). Thanks!