:censor: *rant* Ok so yesterday I went out for my cousins Bday and her boyfriend and his friends were there (they are form outta town so I've never met them). So when i first meet them they had this look on their eyes (kinda "lit" up). Of course we are going clubbing so i wore a low cute shirt, jeans and a vest. So as the night goes on I relized these guys are a bit were trying to show off how "well" they've done for them self. One guy kept on grabbing my wrist and trying to read my pulse in the middle of the club (OK!! i get it your in MED) another guy kept on trying to questioned me on my beliefs (OK I GET THAT TOO THAT YOUR IN LAW). THourghout the whole time they never asked me what I did, they came to assumption that i was looking for someone to take care of me (earlier in the night some guy actually asked me that out loud in front of everyone ...he basicaallly said "SO are you looking for a guy to take care of you"...and I answered " Who doesn't but it's not required"). But i guess they only heard the first part. oh and when they asked me what i did...i asked" what do i look like i do for a living" ...and the guy goes "well do you always dress like this??" WTF...I was wearing a white wife beater under a vest and jeans........THE (@*$)(#@(#*@()$*.....!!!and they were looking at my ring and was like WOW .......whoes' the lucky guy and he keptpulling on the stone and questioning me.....I was like "its from my MOM" and they had this look like "SUrReeeEEE"..... I was getting soooo CHOKED.......then after when i was fed up and getting ready to leave, someone came up to talk to me that knew what i was school for and ALLL OF SUDDEEN....they are so interested in my point of view.....they looked at me different....talked to me different......and now they are all interested..........during the first part of the night...they treated me like i was so ditzy gold digger, and by the end of the night I was potential wifey material..... So what I wanted to ask is... Does this happen to you lots...? is it me or do people find males to be very pretensious(sp?) and quick to judge?(i usually find men are more quick to judge then women) do you ever get sick of people being nice to you only after they find out what you do/who you are/ who you socialize with?? I am soooo chokeed....ughhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!