Originally Posted by donnaoh:
I find it kind of strange that those who are critical of us with the "another new bag" comment or 'how much money have you spent on bags?' do not find it a 'bad' thing that they spend loads of their cash on their splurges or habits like sports tickets, eating out, clothes, shoes, cigarettes, food, jewellery, travel etc. Everyone has their own splurges, mine or errr ours happens to be a closet full of bags! Just my opinion.
This comment above is from an old thread, which has a slightly different spin to it, but it is pertinent to what I want to post here. I wanted to revive this question of why we sometimes feel "embarrassed" about carrying new bags around people we know or see frequently. I have not personally experienced family or friends questioning me about my bags, yet it's just a self-conscious feeling I have like they're looking and wondering. It's frustrating because when I get a new bag I want to use and enjoy it. I am not out to flaunt or show off, just to enjoy for myself. Sometimes if I get a new bag I'll only use it when I know I'll be around "strangers" and then I might switch to an older bag when I'll be around people I know. If I do carry a new bag around friends I might tuck it under my arm so as to be more inconspicuous. Plain bags are easier to "hide" but decorated or siggy bags not so much. I know it's silly. I think donnaoh really hit the nail on the head with the comment above. It seems like it's OK to have a closet full of clothes or shoes, some of which may fall in the same price range as a bag, yet bags seem to get a more judgemental or questionable reaction. People collect and are into all kinds of things. I happen to like designer bags (esp. Coach!). This is just my perception. Like I said, no one has ever said anything to me but I can tell when they're looking. Does anyone feel similarly?
I find it kind of strange that those who are critical of us with the "another new bag" comment or 'how much money have you spent on bags?' do not find it a 'bad' thing that they spend loads of their cash on their splurges or habits like sports tickets, eating out, clothes, shoes, cigarettes, food, jewellery, travel etc. Everyone has their own splurges, mine or errr ours happens to be a closet full of bags! Just my opinion.
This comment above is from an old thread, which has a slightly different spin to it, but it is pertinent to what I want to post here. I wanted to revive this question of why we sometimes feel "embarrassed" about carrying new bags around people we know or see frequently. I have not personally experienced family or friends questioning me about my bags, yet it's just a self-conscious feeling I have like they're looking and wondering. It's frustrating because when I get a new bag I want to use and enjoy it. I am not out to flaunt or show off, just to enjoy for myself. Sometimes if I get a new bag I'll only use it when I know I'll be around "strangers" and then I might switch to an older bag when I'll be around people I know. If I do carry a new bag around friends I might tuck it under my arm so as to be more inconspicuous. Plain bags are easier to "hide" but decorated or siggy bags not so much. I know it's silly. I think donnaoh really hit the nail on the head with the comment above. It seems like it's OK to have a closet full of clothes or shoes, some of which may fall in the same price range as a bag, yet bags seem to get a more judgemental or questionable reaction. People collect and are into all kinds of things. I happen to like designer bags (esp. Coach!). This is just my perception. Like I said, no one has ever said anything to me but I can tell when they're looking. Does anyone feel similarly?