He there, new member to this forum. You are all so stylish and up to the minute in "it" bags. I am a handbag addict and need help deciding on a new classic black bag. I am trying to make more "timeless" decisons in the bags I choose. I have just purchased both the black chanel cerf tote and the black Cambon flap tote (black with black cc - not patent). I am a stay at home mom, travel a bit and use my large handbags as a diaper bag sometimes. WE are going to Europe and I want large day bag and thought the flap cambon would be safer since it closes. I am very casual, live in Arizona and wear jeans and dressy tops most of the time...I have a pretty deep handbag collection for special ccassions, etc. But which is the better every day bag? I need to be able to have the handle drop long enough to wear it on my left shoulder while holding my son on my hip....HELP!