OK, I've got the Passage A Tokyo scarf and have no idea on how to wear it. I'd like to show the purple square and this seems to be the only way to tie it so that it shows (actually, I can't tie the bloody thing so this was all I could come up with and my hair kept getting tied up in it). Is this OK? Will people laugh and point at me? Should i wear it with black? Am I dropping a magnum in this picture? *sigh* Too many questions, but I need a little help! I'd love to take her out for a spin.