^I just purchased my second CDC today - a Barenia with PHW. I also have the Black with PHW. I have not received a weird reaction from men...yet. I have only had my Black since Christmas (worn only twice) but I can see how men and women might think it is very sexy and edgy piece. I mean, the CDC is derived from the Hermes dog collar, right? So, it does give off a certain rebellious vibe. I could be wrong there and I am sure one of the lovely ladies here will know for sure.
I do love them and have wondered what people must think when I am wearing it as it is atypical of my style (classic, clean and simple). My little sis commented that it was very, very cool and my older sis said it looked very bad ass. If you are concerned, maybe try the Kelly Dog or the Rivale. I have the Kelly Dog and feel that they give off a similar vibe but are more under the radar/less in your face. HTH!