Hi Everyone, I've decided that I would like to get a legacy bag however I am just realizing that the mandy and shoulder bags are different... for those of you that have these bags - which do you prefer? I want to buy one on eBay and want to make sure that I get the right bag. I am 5'9 and weigh about 155-160. There are a few a black leather ones and a gorgeous pond shoulder bag... please help me decide. Also, how heavy is the mandy and do you think the shoulder would be too small for me. THank you for your help.