My neice is 13 and has already been bitten by the Coach bug. She has been saving her money to buy a pair of Coach tennis shoes, even though she'll just beat them up in no time. I have an older, but like new, large black leather Hamptons demi. I was going to eBay it, but they don't go for much. I'm considering wrapping it up and giving it to her for Christmas this year. Maybe even adding a Coach charm with her first initial. Here is my dilemma: I don't know what kind of message she might gleen from the gift. Her parents have no money and would never buy her such a thing, but wouldn't care if I did. I'm the cool aunt who wants to give her cute stuff. Maybe if I give it to her and explain that this one is on me, but she has to do well in school and work hard if she ever wants to get these things on her own. Or do you think this would just be spoiling her? Oh geez, I don't know. Any suggestions? TIA!!