Okay, I've stated before in other posts that I've got the worlds most stubborn hair. When I straighten it, it doesn't stay straight. When I curl it, it doesn't stay curly. And when I try to attempt to give it the "wet curly" look it just looks greasy!! YUCK! Maybe I'm doing it wrong?? Anyone ever get a great successful wet curly look (if you originally have straightish wavy hair to start with). If you can, can I please have the steps and products you use?? (and a photo if I'm lucky!!) TIA gals!