I don't know what to wear !!!! Bad right ? So after 16 months my husband is FINALLY coming home from Iraq. In that time I have lost 40 lbs.. no much but something, and dropped from a 22/24 to a 12-16 depending on the designer. Im also heavily tattooed, still plus size and not SUPER girlie. Im having trouble figuring out what to wear for the day and am finding it to be a complete headache.