so i found this leather trench coat (mackage) i LOVE at tjmaxx for $200 but they only had size XS -- i need a medium! it fits across my shoulders -- i can get it on -- it just won't close -- doesn't even come CLOSE to closing!!! so... can i wear it like one might wear a bolero or shrug? meaning as a layer over a dress or jeans/t-shirt... NOT as a coat that you take off (or try to close around you to keep warm)... but just as a layer? or will i look like an idiot do you think? (my camera is dead... planning to buy batteries tomorrow) thanks!!!