I just purchased a Botkier Sasha Shoulder Tote in black with my tiiiiiiny bank account. http://www.botkier.com/fw07/prod-new-w-sizes.php?prod_code=102309&sasha_shoulder_tote.html I love it now, but I'm worried it's too trendy/I've fallen for some great marketing scheme/etc. and I won't use the bag for more than a few years. May I ask for your two cents, lovely ladies? What do you think? or ?