as some have you might have read in the thread i started in the jewelry section, i lost my brother last week. it was sudden and tragic....we were very close and i don't really know how to sort out my feelings yet (not that anyone expects me to or anything). have any of you read any books on death/loss/grieving that helped you? i'm going to talk to someone once things settle down a little, but i'm a researcher at heart, i read everything i can get my hands on....i figure that's as good a place to start any. thanks.