hi guys..this is my first thread on this forum. had i known about this forum, i would've been a member for ages! i was wondering if any of you guys have the same problem as i do with the blake bag. i bought a pink one on sale at the melrose store i think a year or two ago for 40% off. i love this bag cuz it's so cute and spacious but i realize after a while, it's super heavy. the metal hardware on this bag is crazy. my shoulders actually ache from carrying it. is it just me or do you guys have this problem too?