I find that I am in a time and place in my life that a change has come. Over the last 15 years or so I have refined my choices in fashion. Now at 37 I lean toward a clean American Look. Kind of New York Socialite Living in the South all of my life we have made trips to New York and I am struck by the way these women pull together great Hair, Makeup and Clothes It appears beautiful but not over done. I am looking for suggestion from the member of this board. I want to know what goes into this look and key pieces I should have. And any other suggestion on hair, skin, makeup what ever you can add. A friend of my sister told me to read Better Than Beauty A Guide to Charm by Helen Valentine and Alice Thompson. Tell me what do you think?