Or do you find yourselves using it just for special occasions? I wonder if it becomes annoying, getting into and out of the bag, and the way it can fall forward on your arm if open . . . I still think, for me, (chasing toddler) the plume may be the way to go, but I LOVE the kelly. I especially like the rigide, which adds to the more formal feel, and may make it even less of an everyday bag. I would hate to get something that never sees the light of day. Thoughts?