Hi everybody,
Dunno how many of you read my post about me constantly babysitting my cousin Nicole - but there are some problems that are starting to pop up with her that I'm not sure how to handle. I tried talking to her parents (who only see her about 2 hours a day), but they weren't much help.
1. She's starting to detach from her mother. When her mother picks her up from our house, Nicole screams, cries, kicks, basically does anything she can not to go with her mom. I feel terrible for my aunt, because it seems kind of obvious that Nicole doesn't want to be there...but I don't know how to get rid of this problem. She's also started calling me mommy. We were at the pool the other day and a boy took away one of her toys, and she came to me screaming "MOMMY MOMMY!". :weird:
2. I think it's about time to start introducing time-outs to her. She doesn't understand the word "no" and when I try and explain to her why I'm upset, all she does is hit me and run away. I've tried time out with her before, but she keeps running after me screaming. I don't leave the room while she's in time out. I just sit her on a stool in the kitchen and ask her to sit quietly for a few minutes. Any tips on time out?
3. Co-sleeping. I've been asked by her mother to break her from cosleeping, but I don't know how. When she takes her nap (she doesn't always, but on some days she does), I basically have to lay in bed with her and snuggle until she goes to sleep. When I get up, she wakes up, cries, and then we go through the same routine again. *stress*
Help????/
Dunno how many of you read my post about me constantly babysitting my cousin Nicole - but there are some problems that are starting to pop up with her that I'm not sure how to handle. I tried talking to her parents (who only see her about 2 hours a day), but they weren't much help.
1. She's starting to detach from her mother. When her mother picks her up from our house, Nicole screams, cries, kicks, basically does anything she can not to go with her mom. I feel terrible for my aunt, because it seems kind of obvious that Nicole doesn't want to be there...but I don't know how to get rid of this problem. She's also started calling me mommy. We were at the pool the other day and a boy took away one of her toys, and she came to me screaming "MOMMY MOMMY!". :weird:
2. I think it's about time to start introducing time-outs to her. She doesn't understand the word "no" and when I try and explain to her why I'm upset, all she does is hit me and run away. I've tried time out with her before, but she keeps running after me screaming. I don't leave the room while she's in time out. I just sit her on a stool in the kitchen and ask her to sit quietly for a few minutes. Any tips on time out?
3. Co-sleeping. I've been asked by her mother to break her from cosleeping, but I don't know how. When she takes her nap (she doesn't always, but on some days she does), I basically have to lay in bed with her and snuggle until she goes to sleep. When I get up, she wakes up, cries, and then we go through the same routine again. *stress*
Help????/