I don't think there's anything wrong with being quiet, let me just say that first off. But I honestly am deeply offended when someone tells me I'm quiet. I AM NOT QUIET. I am not LOUD, but I am NOT AT ALL quiet. I am just regular and I CAN be LOUD. I can't stand it. It makes me so upset. A customer said it to me that I was so quiet (probably because I don't get excited when he comes in or yell his name) and then this lady I work with told me when I asked her, she's like you think you're loud but you're quiet. Even if that's why he said it, this is not the first time. Like I NEVER HEAR YOU TALK but somehow I'm quiet, like I don't get it. It just makes me SO SO mad. It's kind of like for someone to tell you you're something you're not is just offensive. Or to point something out even, I don't know. But does anyone else have this problem? I wish I could better explain WHY I'm offended but I don't really know how else to explain it-- it just offends me. I mean I talk loud and I laugh and I joke with people and I go up to people and talk. How in the world is that quiet!!!!!? edit-- And we can't forget SHY. I mean something has got to be wrong here. If I'm not shy or quiet then why am I having this problem? And I don't believe it's got anything to do with time and place; I'm generally consistent.