Ok, 2007 had been a very very crappy year job-wise (which translates to 99% of my life since my parents are on my back about it), however ... it has also thus far been a surreal year (i.e. the SO on a special non-B/K bag). It just got a tad more surreal last night when I was ranting to my SO online about how I was unable to find a decent job. He once again said that ideally, he would really like me to just move there and support me. I told him I didn't want to be the source of problem later on since financially it would be very tight with his salary. I also said that I don't want him to control what I do and that was why I wanted to make my own money so I can be independent. To that comment, he replied, "Yah, I understand. You got to have your luxury goods." Ok, he KNOWS about my Hermes obsession, and he KNOWS how expensive they are ... By saying that, it appears to me that he has finally come to terms with it, right? It seems that he probably won't care if I spend on Hermes anymore? I mean, he has accepted it, right? If so, that's a REALLY good thing, not having him trying to control or approve how I spend my money considering how anti-namebrand he is. Anyways, am I reading into it or is my interpretation correct?