Hi all! I just wanted some opinions on whether or not I'm being too harsh with a particular ebayer. I have a bag up right now, and I have had a particular ebayer ask several questions and ask for quite a few pictures, all of which I happily obliged to. In yet another email she asked if I could wait 2 weeks for her to pay me after the auction ended if she won. I again, said this would be OK. So she bid. Then in ANOTHER email she asked for the size (which I already answered) and asked for still more pictures. After not even 18 hours she retracted her bid with the reason "seller cannot be contacted"! She emailed me while I was at work yesterday and I got called in unexpectedly, and I had promised to take my son and his friend out to eat and to the movies. I was too tired when I came home to take pictures and upload them so I figured I'd do them today (the auction still has 2 days left). I feel as though I've been jumping through hoops for this person and especially after agreeing to accepting payment 2 full weeks after the auction ends. I am kind of angry at this because I think this makes me look bad, as a seller. I have lots of watchers on the bag and I would hate for a watcher/potential buyer to see that there is now no bids and to see that a buyer retracted their bid because I couldn't be contacted. It makes me look shady and unreliable. So, perceiving that this person could be a potential continued problem if she were to bid again and win, I answered her email, told her that I didn't feel it was right for her to retract under the grounds that I couldn't be contacted, especially since she had been in contact with me all along, then after sending the email, I added her to my BBL. Is this too harsh of me?