Okay I just need to hear some opinions because this has been bothering me for years. I am a white american if it matters at all. Basically I have an asian fetish. Japanese, chinese, korean, taiwanese, fiipino, singapore pretty much covers what I mean when I say asian. But its not even really a looks "preference" which is perfectly normal for anyone. I do think looks are personality have an equal importance in a relationship. Anyway, I pretty much will only date/ hook up/ show an interest in Asian men. If they are not asian I make the freinds only line very visable. Men of other ethnicities have asked me out or tried to hook up and I wont even give them the time of day, even if all my friends are drooling over him and saying how hot he is. When I say I think David beckham is ugly people nearly die. I am on a dating site and when someoen sends a message If they are not asian (which is alot) i dont even read it because 99.9% chance I know Ill take one look and go "eww". The non asian men I found remotely attractive in my life is a grand total of 5. This fetish of mine is permenent and its not even concious. I dont go "ew no your not asian" but unconsciously I think "i would never date or have sex with that guy" or "ew hes ugly" and sometimes they are asian and sometimes not but all the ones Im like "ohhhhh baby " turn out to be asian. I dont really think Im racist. I didnt wake up one day and decide I will only like asian men, I just do. I think all races are equal and I dont see color when it comes to friends, or business, or anything except dating/sex/marriage. If you asked what race a particular person was I would have to stop and think for a moment. I have a problem with racial stereotypes and all that stuff. I feel uncomfortable to using racial terms like white, asian etc. but there is no other way to say it. But my friends always call me shallow, and racist whenever it comes up. It makes me feel horrible sometimes but like I said, I have to be attracted to someone, i cant go on personality alone and asian men just fit my profile of attractive and I cant really help that.