Well ladies, after almost a year of drooling and wanting and waiting, my 35th bday is just around the corner and I am just a couple weeks away from being able to get my first bbag! I know I want anthracite - I have to be somewhat practical in the color choice b/c this may very well be the first and last bbag purchase for some time (we are doing some major work on the house AND I'm pregnant, so spending must be curbed indefinitely after the bday), so I wanted something that will be somewhat timeless, wouldn't really show darkening, but yet still not be just black. Now, my need in the advice department is twofold. First, I've seen and love both the twiggy and city styles, but am not positive which to go with - I don't carry a ton, so a medium sized bag is usually fine, and I would probably base the final decision on which would go on my shoulder more comfortably (for reference, I'm 5'6" and have extremely broad shoulders and while I am not heavy, I'm obviously preggo and far from petite even when not "in the family way"!). Second, as far as getting an anthracite bag goes, I'm near KoP in PA and was wondering if anyone knows if NM in KoP has any anthracite in stock (I know Joann Schepp doesn't carry the usual motorcycle sytles) or if there's anywhere else in the Philly area to try. Otherwise, should I just order from BalNY? Also, in case you guys respond and I don't for a while, please bear with me - work is beyond chaotic lately and due to the work on the house, I don't have internet access there so sometimes it takes me a while between posting to respond. I'm soooooo excited about being on the verge of becomming a proud bbag owner! I've been having dreams about blue bbags which I told my husband meant we were having a boy (when I was pregnant with my daughter, I kept having dreams about pink bathrooms). He said it just means I'm obsessed with the bags! I corrected him and said maybe it's a sign that not only are we having a boy, but we're having a boy AND I definitely should get my bag! He had no comment . . . Anyway, I'll stop babbling and thank you all in advance for the help!