After a year of being with your boyfriend, has his attitude towards you changed? I don't know what's wrong, and I've been trying so hard, but it feels like everything I do goes unnoticed. My bf used to be sweeter, nicer, and more doting, but lately (especially in the past few months), he's just been more of a "whatever" attitude. When I try to talk to him (just about casual things), he tells me to hush. He makes little kissy noises instead of actually kissing me now, and if I get upset about something and try to talk to him about it, he sighs exasperatedly, closes his eyes, and just has the "whatever" look on his face. :cry: I don't know what happened--we were fine before the summer, but now it seems that no matter what I do, he doesn't seem to notice, and instead, just lies there on the couch and watches TV. I feel like he doesn't care about me as much anymore, and if I tell him that, he says, "I DO care about you." But then again, what else could he possibly say? I don't know what to do, and I'm frustrated and sad because this has been my longest relationship, and I do feel like we're good together. But it seems like it's always what he wants, and that I'm not really a person, more just an item with the label of "girlfriend." I'm sorry, I needed to rant and I didn't know where else to turn to except for a forum of sweet, smart girls (and boys). Thank you for listening.